ARTICLES AND REFLECTIONS

Reflections on relationships, parenthood, communication, identity, and emotional wellbeing

Elaine Tan 29/7/26 Elaine Tan 29/7/26

When Parenting Differences Turn Into Relationship Conflict

Differing parenting styles can become one of the most common sources of conflict between couples.
Learn why this happens and how counselling can help you parent as a team.

Elaine Tan 22/7/26 Elaine Tan 22/7/26

You Don't Need to Be in Crisis to Start Counselling

You do not need to wait until your relationship is in crisis to start counselling.
Learn when couples counselling can help and why early support matters.

Elaine Tan 15/7/26 Elaine Tan 15/7/26

What Actually Happens in Couples Counselling?

Wondering what couples counselling is like?
Learn what happens in the first sessions, what to expect and how the process works at Better Days Counselling.

Elaine Tan 8/7/26 Elaine Tan 8/7/26

The Mental Load and Relationship Resentment

Mental load can quietly create resentment in relationships, especially after becoming parents.
Learn why this happens and how counselling can help couples talk about it without blame.

Elaine Tan 19/6/26 Elaine Tan 19/6/26

What Nobody Tells You About Relationships After Having a Baby

Most couples expect having a baby to bring them closer. When it doesn't, it can feel confusing and lonely. Learn why feeling disconnected after having a baby is more common than you think and what can help.